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My own story. My Ordeal in the hands of Ivie – Edobor Okeikhan John




Edobor Okeikhan John finally shares his own side of the story…  And ordeal that happen between him and his wife, who is receiving treatment on her broken leg she sustained during the mishap. Case of domestic violence according to his wife, He also lost his job at Zenith bank… He share this on Facebook.. Read the story below…

My own story. My Ordeal in the hands of Ivie 

Ivie Angela Edobor who lives in Surulere, Lagos, got married at Saint
Dominics Catholic Church, 356, Herbert Macaulay Street, Yaba, Lagos on
Saturday, 30th June, 2007 at 12:00noon. We did the traditional marriage
ceremony at the father’s compound at Abisogun Estate, Alafia
Sari-Iganmu, off Lagos Badagry Expressway on a Thursday, 28th June,
2007. And as well as the marriage Registry in Lagos at Ikoyi on the
17th January, 2007 (all the marriage documents are attached).
Ivie and I are blessed with three lovely children (three girls – senior
9 years old; second – 7 years and 4 years old respectively). Ivie and I
had lived together all these years in peace devoid of rancour and
acrimony together and love.
Ivie Edobor once worked for Stanbic
IBTC Bank Plc until she resigned her appointment on the 11th July, 2011
in view of the fact that she was been accused of collecting kickbacks
from the bank’s contractors in order for her to perform her duties as
administrative staff. She exhibited these traits of fraud, corrupt
practices and financial misappropriation which led to her termination
and dismissal from Econet (now Airtel)
… Prior to marrying me she
once worked at a prominent multinational mobile company (Econet now
Airtel) where She was dismissed for lack of integrity due to lies in
addition to her serial borrowing from her many colleagues.
Ivie resigned from Stanbic IBTC Bank in 2011, (find attached her
resignation letter) in order for her not to be at home doing nothing, we
both had a discussion on her nest line of what she could do and then
she suggested that she wanted to start importing diapers from the
United Kingdom (UK) and start distributing and selling in retail which I
obliged her by giving her initial start-up capital of about N500, 000
(Five Hundred Thousand Naira) and as the year progresses, we noticed
that the business was moving I had to borrow moneys from friends and
with my personal savings to inject into the business which amounted to
about N8million (Eight Million Naira Only).
Every year, it was
our agreement that audit be done to ensure that, the business is
actually doing well and to make sure tax is paid to Government as well.
This was actually adhered to in 2012 and in 2013, I noticed that Ivie
had refused to call the accountant to come audit her books. I kept
insisting on the audit to be done since she knows the accountant and
have his contacts and moreover where we were staying in Ajah at No 76,
House 3, Street X, Abraham Adesanya Estate, Ajah, Lagos, was not far
from where the accountant was actually living in Ajah.
persisted until in September 17th 2014 when strange faces of people I
had never met or spoken with before kept coming to knock at my gate as
early as 5a.m. every morning to demand for their moneys from Ivie and
when the amount was added together that came knocking and requesting for
their moneys it came to about N25,204,250 (Twenty Five Million, Two
Hundred and Four Thousand, Two Hundred and Fifty Naira Only). Please see
attached the list of people she was owing and these people are
available if you which to speak with them. Most of them said Ivie told
them that her dad was sick and she needs money to treat her very sick
dad. Just like she has said on FB that I dont give her money….

 Despite all these borrowings, Ivie could not account for what the sum of
N25, 204,250 was spent on and till date she has not being able to
explain in clear terms what the money was used for. She could not
explain to me or her family members how she spent such huge sum of
money. It became clear of recent after two years that she actually
borrowed these moneys to save face from shame since Mr. Matthew Agbaire
who she was dating was threatening to blackmail her if she could not
part with money anytime Matthew Agbaire requested for any sum to use for

On 11 October 2014, one of the ivie’s creditors known
as Tolu and her family members, came to the house when I had gone for a
training, dragged my sister (Otekpen) out of the bathroom when she was
having her bath and assaulted and humiliated her. The matter was
reported by me to the Nigerian Police Station, Ogombo, Ajah, Lagos and
the matter was recorded in crime diary S/NO 80, Time 2055 HRS. (go and
verify for yourselves).

When the threat of violence was becoming too
much, I advised ivie to relocate to her father’s house temporarily till
a time that the entire or substantial part of the indebtedness would
have been defrayed and the threat of violence most especially on the
children of the marriage would stop.
After Ivie left our matrimonial home as agreed, we were still meeting on Fridayto Sundays at the matrimonial home in Ajah to discuss our family
affairs. And we were during this period still performing our marital
responsibility to each other. (evidence to support this assertion with
printed copies of correspondence between us and her pregnancy.)

In November 24th, 2015, Ivie was pregnant for me with twins which she
confirmed severally in our chat (see attached for your perusal and
confirmation the Ultra Sound Scan Report for the LMP and EDD) and the
pregnancy grow for 5 (five) months and the babies had become 5(five)
months old in June.
Since Ivie was living in Surulere despite my
several plead to the father to allow Ivie and the children to come join
me in Yaba notwithstanding that Ivie and I looked for the apartment in
Yaba for us to live as one family again, Ivie deceded to stay back in
surulere and every Fridays she would come to sleep with me while on
weekdays she kept sleeping with Matthew Agbaire who is married with his
own kids.
Until May 2016, when my kids where on midterm break,
and they came to spend the holiday with me in Yaba that two of my
children told me that, every night, one uncle Matthew was always coming
to the house to sleep in mummy’s room till the next day and he will buy
them suya. And when I asked Ivie she initially denied until I showed
her a video clip of what the childthat she then admitted (see attached
our chat for your perusal) and at this time Ivie was still pregnant.


Since Ivie knew the consequences of her action she begged and pleaded
that, she would need to go for confession which she did in June 5th,
2016 at Saint Dominic Catholic Church, Yaba. There she promised the
reverend father Felix never to go back to such life again. Two days
later I received a phone call from the house help that, Matthew came
again to take her out and did not return until late in the night. When I
asked Ivie she denied and she beat up the house help as well as
collected her phone from her.
At this time Ivie had threatened
she was going to flush the babies since I am doubting the paternity of
the twin. Because, I asked Ivie if you are pregnant for me and still
kept sleeping with another man (Matthew Agbaire) so who own the babies?
We would need to do a DNA test to actually know who their father is.
Three days later, Ivie and Matthew Agbaire went to abort the babies
since she was worried that I kept insisting on the DNA of the children.
When I asked ivie what happened to the babies she said she could not
face the shame of having bastard children which am not ready to father
and this kept me worried up till now since Ivie could kill children that
were already formed (7months) babies.
I spoke with the father
who lives in Orile, in Lagos and even went to see him about it and all I
got from the father was he will talk to Ivie and two of her aunties and
I tried calling her mother who lives in UK but she would not pick her
calls and as well told my family members about it too.
On what
happened in June 19th 2016, incident that got ivie admitted at Tokin
Hospital for broken leg, contrary to claims by Ivie, she actually got
injured during a scuffle between myself and Matthew Agbaire who brought
out a hammer his tool box in his car to fight me when Ivie at sighting
me started shouting ole, ole for the security men to come and kill when
Matthew brought her back home past one (1:00a.m.) in the morning while
the children were left at home with a girl of about 13years old to care
for them while Ivie and Matthew went to a hotel to have sex. Ivie in an
attempt to allow Matthew to run away was holding on to my hands backward
and in the course of my struggle, Ivie and I fell to the ground and
then, Matthew wanted to seize the opportunity to slam the hammer in his
hand on me which I dodged and then I noticed he was not relenting the
second time after first strike which actually hit ivie, and then she
shouted, when saw him trying to raise his hand again, I had to row over
ivie and stood on my feet before the security men came to rescue the
situation. Matthew quickly rushed her to a hospital in Surulere perhaps
the same hospital the twin was aborted by Ivie and Matthew.

has consistently told people that I have not been taking care of the
children school fees (find attached the receipts of my children school
fees till date for your perusal) and that because they are girls and not
boys that was the reason I drove her out of the matrimonial home. This
statement is reckless and unfortunate because I love my daughters and in
several instances I had used prominent woman who are role models like
Okonjo Iwala to buttress my stand on this even to her. I do know for
sure my children will grow up to be greater than men and their knowledge
will be sort after around the world. She has push out false information
to the public for her to continuously gain sympathy from the public,
press, bloggers, the civil society and human rights activist. 
another case, she has said I came prepared with the intention to kill
her that night she was injured by Matthew, with a knife and of recent a
dagger and crowbar or wheel spanner to attack her. And I keep wondering
with the inconsistency the tools she keep naming that I used. The fact
is, I came into Lagos that night (18th June, 2016) from school in Ile –
Ife at about 9p.m. with my school bag and book in it and my car was
parked at the stadium where I drove to her house which is a stone throw
away from her house and I did not get Yaba before going to see her that
night since we had agreed to meet that night. Matthew was the one who
works for a construction company and had his tool box where he brought
out his big hammer he used on Ivie. 
It will shock you to know
that Ivie was married to one Mr. Benedith Jatto on the 17th December
2002 a document she used in her NYSC and equally in her former place of
employment while she was working with Airtel Nigeria. I got to know and
see all of these when this issue came up and a copy of the document is
available for your perusal. And up till date that married has not been
dissolved which means ivie is legally married to two men.

Ivie is
doing all these for her to hide her shame and the face of Matthew
Agbaire a father of two who is still married to his wife, and work in
Centrix Allied Limited who is the brain behand her termination of the
twin and the her broken leg. It is unfortunate that Ivie is acting this
way because as my wife and mother of my beautiful children this is not
the way I planned for us.
As a responsible father I have
consistently played my role and provided for them to the best of my
ability all that they needed.

So please tell me how I went wrong….
You can imagine my shock to find out that I am her 2nd husband…was it
wrong of me to have encouraged and empowered my wife? Please tell me
which man will take it…she only shouted out so the issue of the
children she killed will not come limelight….

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